This is definitely a question for your surgeon. Given the circumstances, if there is any way around it, the surgeon will no doubt try to find a creative solution to the problem. Some of this decision depends on the type of fracture, especially severity. If the fractured ends of the bone have separated, casting is important to avoid further displacing the bones and ending up with a significant difference in leg length from one side to the other.
Your child’s weight also helps determine what can be done. If she weighs less than 90 to 100 pounds, it may be possible to place a long pin called an intramedullary nail down the shaft (center) of the bone. This is one form of fixation used to hold the bone together while it heals. The location of the fracture is also a factor. This technique isn’t always possible if the break is at the top or bottom of the femur (rather than in the middle).
Femoral fractures in children is an area where the research is lacking. More and better research is needed in this area. Although there has been a trend toward surgical care instead of traction and prolonged casting, high-quality studies comparing the two approaches have not been done.